Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.
2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
4. Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
5. Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
How to Meet Singles – a Real Hidden Secret
What did you say the last time someone asked you how to meet single guys or gals?
Actually, it is probably easier to meet single men than single women. Men hang out in bars and watch sports TV in those bars. So, ladies, find a sports bar and learn about a sport.
Women aren’t as good at “hanging out”. Lots of women really do not like bars. It makes them feel like they are getting picked up when someone sits next to them in a bar – and in truth, they probably are.
And the opening lines. Do you come here often? Haven’t we met before? There just has to be a better way.
In researching romantic places to go, I happened upon one of the real hidden secrets in meeting women. You won’t believe it. It is a bar, but it is a very respectable, fun bar. It is a place where people, especially singles, congregate, but not in scary hoards. It is a place with inherent fun, and honest opening lines, like How do you like the merlot?
It is a wine tasting bar.
I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t experienced it first hand. I went into my local California wine tasting bar, a very nice place in Newport Beach, California – the Wine Lab. It is a small place, with about a dozen seats at the bar, and room for maybe fifty people total. It was busy that night, around thirty people. And at least twenty of them were women. And not just any woman. These were very pretty, very nice, educated, funny, happy ladies.
So I snuck up to the last open spot at the bar, in between two very lovely ladies. One was drinking a red wine, and the other was drinking a white. So I asked, Should I have cabernet or chardonnay tonight? Well, we started talking, and there wasn’t a pause for nearly two hours.
So this is how to meet singles, I said to myself. You walk into a wine bar and ask about wine. Duh. Who would of thunk?
There are other opening lines that work well too. Like “Is that a zinfandel that you are drinking?” “Which of the flights (sets of wine tastings) are you drinking?”
There is one drawback: you may need to learn a bit about wine and wine tasting, but that isn’t difficult. In fact, you could probably ask the ladies that you meet to teach you, and they would gladly assist.
At first I thought this was an aberration, just one great wine bar in one area. But I tried out my theory in Saratoga, in northern California, and even in San Diego. The same thing happened in all three places. Each California wine tasting bar attracted a slew of lovely ladies who were anxious to tell me about their wine.
I have fallen in love several time since my first discovery of the amazing way to meet ladies. I am having a hard time choosing amongst all my new found flames.
So now I have my mission in life: to meet single ladies in California wine tasting bars across the state. What a way to live.
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Actually, it is probably easier to meet single men than single women. Men hang out in bars and watch sports TV in those bars. So, ladies, find a sports bar and learn about a sport.
Women aren’t as good at “hanging out”. Lots of women really do not like bars. It makes them feel like they are getting picked up when someone sits next to them in a bar – and in truth, they probably are.
And the opening lines. Do you come here often? Haven’t we met before? There just has to be a better way.
In researching romantic places to go, I happened upon one of the real hidden secrets in meeting women. You won’t believe it. It is a bar, but it is a very respectable, fun bar. It is a place where people, especially singles, congregate, but not in scary hoards. It is a place with inherent fun, and honest opening lines, like How do you like the merlot?
It is a wine tasting bar.
I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t experienced it first hand. I went into my local California wine tasting bar, a very nice place in Newport Beach, California – the Wine Lab. It is a small place, with about a dozen seats at the bar, and room for maybe fifty people total. It was busy that night, around thirty people. And at least twenty of them were women. And not just any woman. These were very pretty, very nice, educated, funny, happy ladies.
So I snuck up to the last open spot at the bar, in between two very lovely ladies. One was drinking a red wine, and the other was drinking a white. So I asked, Should I have cabernet or chardonnay tonight? Well, we started talking, and there wasn’t a pause for nearly two hours.
So this is how to meet singles, I said to myself. You walk into a wine bar and ask about wine. Duh. Who would of thunk?
There are other opening lines that work well too. Like “Is that a zinfandel that you are drinking?” “Which of the flights (sets of wine tastings) are you drinking?”
There is one drawback: you may need to learn a bit about wine and wine tasting, but that isn’t difficult. In fact, you could probably ask the ladies that you meet to teach you, and they would gladly assist.
At first I thought this was an aberration, just one great wine bar in one area. But I tried out my theory in Saratoga, in northern California, and even in San Diego. The same thing happened in all three places. Each California wine tasting bar attracted a slew of lovely ladies who were anxious to tell me about their wine.
I have fallen in love several time since my first discovery of the amazing way to meet ladies. I am having a hard time choosing amongst all my new found flames.
So now I have my mission in life: to meet single ladies in California wine tasting bars across the state. What a way to live.
Published At: Isnare.com Free Articles Directory - http://www.isnare.com/
Permanent Link: http://www.isnare.com/?aid=522403&ca=Dating
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