6. Choose those you have a good chance of dating. Be realistic. In other words, your dating is based on the whole package you present as well as just your personality. If you are looking for a glamour girl or boy and want to date someone trendy and gorgeous, great! Just know that others will expect you to be the same.
7. Join clubs, societies, sports events, drama groups -- anything that might help you meet like-minded potential partners. You will not meet people by staying indoors and playing video games – many have tried and failed at this approach.
8. Take time off from dating occasionally if it’s not going well or causing dating fatigue. Recharging your batteries and keeping confidence and optimism levels high is an absolute must. We all hit rough patches, but don’t let your search for love become a death march. Date in phases if necessary.
9. Enjoy dating for what it is, dating. It is meeting people and socializing and spending time in the company of stimulating individuals who may or may not play a bigger part in your life down the road. The fact is, most people have something interesting to offer. While you may not be out on the dating scene looking for new friends, you may well find one or two fabulous people along the way.
10. Never make yourself too available. People like mystery and enigma and the thrill of the chase when dating. As part of keeping up the mystery, do not sleep with your dates early on. The longer a person is made to chase and fall for you within reason, the more likely that love may blossom. (And yes, this goes for both men AND women!) If the chemistry peaks too early, your emotions may never have time to catch up and the relationship will eventually wither away.
Getting prepared for dating (Part I)
Get prepared for dating. If you really want to succeed in the dating game, be ready to commit to dating. Half-heartedness won't work. In fact, it won’t even get you half-way. If you really want to date, put some effort into it. Do some research and think about what you want out of dating. Prepare yourself for the inevitable rejection we all face at some point in dating and commit not to give up.
2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
4. Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
5. Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
2. Get your act together. Begin a regime of looking your best. Join a gym, read health magazines, get fit and start a diet. Get your hair cut or styled and begin a new regime of good grooming or beauty treatment. Though it will not find you a date in itself, you will feel a million times more confident about yourself, and others can sense that.
3. Go shopping and treat yourself to new clothes and even a whole new look. Get your image right, one that you can manage and live with, but one that flatters you. Don't try to be someone you’re not, but amplify and accentuate your positives. Throw out those tired jeans, old sweaters or cardigans and spruce yourself up. Your date will appreciate that you demonstrated some effort.
4. Think about what you want to gain from dating and what timeframes you expect. Do you see yourself married within 2 years? If you do, then approach dating accordingly. If you are more laid back and don't take dating too seriously then ask yourself some honest questions about why you are dating and what you hope to achieve. If it is purely sex then ask yourself if you are about to be honest with those you hope to date.
5. Surround yourself with people who will support your dating aims. By following the first four tips you will feel better and be more focused. Don’t sabotage this by sitting around with friends who are negative about love and relationships (often the married ones). Start attending social functions frequented by singles. Sitting alongside couples at dinner parties in suburbia is not necessarily where you need to be right now.
How to Meet Singles – a Real Hidden Secret
What did you say the last time someone asked you how to meet single guys or gals?
Actually, it is probably easier to meet single men than single women. Men hang out in bars and watch sports TV in those bars. So, ladies, find a sports bar and learn about a sport.
Women aren’t as good at “hanging out”. Lots of women really do not like bars. It makes them feel like they are getting picked up when someone sits next to them in a bar – and in truth, they probably are.
And the opening lines. Do you come here often? Haven’t we met before? There just has to be a better way.
In researching romantic places to go, I happened upon one of the real hidden secrets in meeting women. You won’t believe it. It is a bar, but it is a very respectable, fun bar. It is a place where people, especially singles, congregate, but not in scary hoards. It is a place with inherent fun, and honest opening lines, like How do you like the merlot?
It is a wine tasting bar.
I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t experienced it first hand. I went into my local California wine tasting bar, a very nice place in Newport Beach, California – the Wine Lab. It is a small place, with about a dozen seats at the bar, and room for maybe fifty people total. It was busy that night, around thirty people. And at least twenty of them were women. And not just any woman. These were very pretty, very nice, educated, funny, happy ladies.
So I snuck up to the last open spot at the bar, in between two very lovely ladies. One was drinking a red wine, and the other was drinking a white. So I asked, Should I have cabernet or chardonnay tonight? Well, we started talking, and there wasn’t a pause for nearly two hours.
So this is how to meet singles, I said to myself. You walk into a wine bar and ask about wine. Duh. Who would of thunk?
There are other opening lines that work well too. Like “Is that a zinfandel that you are drinking?” “Which of the flights (sets of wine tastings) are you drinking?”
There is one drawback: you may need to learn a bit about wine and wine tasting, but that isn’t difficult. In fact, you could probably ask the ladies that you meet to teach you, and they would gladly assist.
At first I thought this was an aberration, just one great wine bar in one area. But I tried out my theory in Saratoga, in northern California, and even in San Diego. The same thing happened in all three places. Each California wine tasting bar attracted a slew of lovely ladies who were anxious to tell me about their wine.
I have fallen in love several time since my first discovery of the amazing way to meet ladies. I am having a hard time choosing amongst all my new found flames.
So now I have my mission in life: to meet single ladies in California wine tasting bars across the state. What a way to live.
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Actually, it is probably easier to meet single men than single women. Men hang out in bars and watch sports TV in those bars. So, ladies, find a sports bar and learn about a sport.
Women aren’t as good at “hanging out”. Lots of women really do not like bars. It makes them feel like they are getting picked up when someone sits next to them in a bar – and in truth, they probably are.
And the opening lines. Do you come here often? Haven’t we met before? There just has to be a better way.
In researching romantic places to go, I happened upon one of the real hidden secrets in meeting women. You won’t believe it. It is a bar, but it is a very respectable, fun bar. It is a place where people, especially singles, congregate, but not in scary hoards. It is a place with inherent fun, and honest opening lines, like How do you like the merlot?
It is a wine tasting bar.
I wouldn’t have believed it if I hadn’t experienced it first hand. I went into my local California wine tasting bar, a very nice place in Newport Beach, California – the Wine Lab. It is a small place, with about a dozen seats at the bar, and room for maybe fifty people total. It was busy that night, around thirty people. And at least twenty of them were women. And not just any woman. These were very pretty, very nice, educated, funny, happy ladies.
So I snuck up to the last open spot at the bar, in between two very lovely ladies. One was drinking a red wine, and the other was drinking a white. So I asked, Should I have cabernet or chardonnay tonight? Well, we started talking, and there wasn’t a pause for nearly two hours.
So this is how to meet singles, I said to myself. You walk into a wine bar and ask about wine. Duh. Who would of thunk?
There are other opening lines that work well too. Like “Is that a zinfandel that you are drinking?” “Which of the flights (sets of wine tastings) are you drinking?”
There is one drawback: you may need to learn a bit about wine and wine tasting, but that isn’t difficult. In fact, you could probably ask the ladies that you meet to teach you, and they would gladly assist.
At first I thought this was an aberration, just one great wine bar in one area. But I tried out my theory in Saratoga, in northern California, and even in San Diego. The same thing happened in all three places. Each California wine tasting bar attracted a slew of lovely ladies who were anxious to tell me about their wine.
I have fallen in love several time since my first discovery of the amazing way to meet ladies. I am having a hard time choosing amongst all my new found flames.
So now I have my mission in life: to meet single ladies in California wine tasting bars across the state. What a way to live.
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How To Approach Girls With Confidence
I am sure you have heard of the phrase, "Men are from Mars and women are from Venus", haven't you? Isn't it true that to most men, girls may as well be a totally different alien species. We simply do not know what is on their minds as often they will say one thing and then do another, don't they?
Is this the reason why guys are totally clueless and terribly afraid when approaching women? Hey guys, whatever happened to the macho chest thumping confident you? Why is it that beautiful women can cast such fears over men?
Well, the reason why men are so afraid of approaching women, especially a beautiful one is likely to be the fear of rejection. Isn't it strange? So what if you are rejected? Afterall, you hardly know her or she may even be a total stranger that you may never see again? This is irrational fear, isn't it?
So, in helping yourself to approach women with confidence and without fear, you have to analyze and reflect on why you feel scared upon approaching them in the first place. Find out kind of woman do you fear the most when it comes to approaching her? Are you afraid to approach beautiful women, the girl next door type, the elegant ones or the office type?
Once you can identify the type you are afraid of approaching, you then determine why you feel the way you do? Is it because of your character or social differences? Is so, then show her your other side. She will appreciate the effort when you do. Who knows, she might even be impressed by the differences and be intrigued with it and thus wanting to be with you to know more.
Or is it because you feel unworthy of her attention because she is too rich or smart or beautiful? So what? No big deal. I am sure you have seen rich girls dating the average income man or the smart girl dating the high school dropout, haven't you? So if that is the case, why can't you date her?
Since there is nothing to lose but all to win, then why not approach her and find out for yourself if there is a possibility of talking and dating her?
As part of your plan in approaching girls, find out the places where you are more comfortable in walking up to them to start conversations. Are you more comfortable approaching women in crowded places or you prefer doing it in dance clubs? When you identify where you are more comfortable with, then go to those places more often and start approaching the women there. As you do it more often, it will become natural to you just to walk up to any girl and start a conversation confidently.
The magic formula in meeting and approaching women is to shore up your confidence. So the best way to gain confidence and eliminate your fear of rejection is to simply do it over and over again until that irrational fear of approaching girls is gone for good.
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Is this the reason why guys are totally clueless and terribly afraid when approaching women? Hey guys, whatever happened to the macho chest thumping confident you? Why is it that beautiful women can cast such fears over men?
Well, the reason why men are so afraid of approaching women, especially a beautiful one is likely to be the fear of rejection. Isn't it strange? So what if you are rejected? Afterall, you hardly know her or she may even be a total stranger that you may never see again? This is irrational fear, isn't it?
So, in helping yourself to approach women with confidence and without fear, you have to analyze and reflect on why you feel scared upon approaching them in the first place. Find out kind of woman do you fear the most when it comes to approaching her? Are you afraid to approach beautiful women, the girl next door type, the elegant ones or the office type?
Once you can identify the type you are afraid of approaching, you then determine why you feel the way you do? Is it because of your character or social differences? Is so, then show her your other side. She will appreciate the effort when you do. Who knows, she might even be impressed by the differences and be intrigued with it and thus wanting to be with you to know more.
Or is it because you feel unworthy of her attention because she is too rich or smart or beautiful? So what? No big deal. I am sure you have seen rich girls dating the average income man or the smart girl dating the high school dropout, haven't you? So if that is the case, why can't you date her?
Since there is nothing to lose but all to win, then why not approach her and find out for yourself if there is a possibility of talking and dating her?
As part of your plan in approaching girls, find out the places where you are more comfortable in walking up to them to start conversations. Are you more comfortable approaching women in crowded places or you prefer doing it in dance clubs? When you identify where you are more comfortable with, then go to those places more often and start approaching the women there. As you do it more often, it will become natural to you just to walk up to any girl and start a conversation confidently.
The magic formula in meeting and approaching women is to shore up your confidence. So the best way to gain confidence and eliminate your fear of rejection is to simply do it over and over again until that irrational fear of approaching girls is gone for good.
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How To Seduce And Attract Beautiful Girlfriends
Most if not all straight guys would like to have beautiful girlfriends. However, no matter how awesome you are, attracting beautiful girls can be a difficult feat if you use the usual approach. I am sure you already knew that, don't you? So are you one of those guys who have difficulty seducing and attracting beautiful women?
You see, if you learn and perfect the art of seduction, attracting beautiful girls can be a piece of cake if you know how to flick on and off her right switches to turn her on. So read the seduction and flirting tips below and use them to become a chick magnet.
Examine Your Mindset - The first thing you must understand is that most men and women are mentally programed to believe certain things and act in certain ways when it comes to the issues of dating. These programed beliefs and attitudes can be the main stumbling block to your sexual attractiveness.
You may despise me for saying this although it is true that most men walk into the dating game with a rather weak mindset. These guys see women, especially beautiful ones as being superior to them. They subconsciously feel that beautiful girls like top models are out of their league.
Why they are beating themselves down even before meeting the girls is beyond my comprehension. Is it inferiority complex or low self esteem, if it is not, who programed these self defeating negative beliefs into their heads? Whoever told them that ordinary guys cannot attract and seduce beautiful women to be their girlfriends?
Those guys, because of this irrational belief and attitude become nervous, tongue-tied, and even scared stiff of approaching beautiful women, starting a conversation with her, or asking her out. Then poof, their chances of having a beautiful girlfriend are dashed since they do not even dare try to approach one.
So be different. Program into your head that you are a confident, secure and awesome guy and once you project that image, beautiful girls will notice you. You see, if you really want a beautiful girl to be attracted to you, you have to turn the tables on her instead of the other way round! You have to make her believe that you are the prize and not her. That you are the rare commodity that she needs to work at to get you before you are gone. In other words, do not make yourself too available. Play the game that women play on men and that is by playing hard to get.
So do not let her control you, no matter how beautiful she is and how desperate you want to date her and have her as your girlfriend. Not only you need to be confident, you must be super confident.
When you find a beautiful woman that you like to attract and seduce, always plan ahead. It is like going to a college examination where you have all the answers prepared well in advance. Since you are prepared, your confident level will skyrocket proportionately. You will not fumble or stutter for lost of words through nervousness because you already knew what to say and do before hand and she will find you very impressive compared to other guys who had approached her in the past.
Most guys will try to wine and dine a beautiful woman thinking that they can impress her with their money or expensive cars or impressive careers. They will even try to be as obedient and compliant as they possibly can.
Wake up guys. All beautiful women are sick of wussy men using these tactics to date them because they have been wined, dined and have tolerated countless show offs time and again. These tactics turn them off instead of getting them seduced. It just doesn't work anymore. She will take you just like any other men and get your freebies just of the sake of having the freebies and after that, bye bye.
Therefore, do the exact opposite of what most guys do and you won't believe how attractive you will become to her because you are not like "any other guy" who tried to impress her before. You are the real Mcoy, the real deal, the real MAN!
It is a fact that most of the time, beautiful girls control the dating game because the wussies let them do it. These women make the rules and call the shots. So, in order to win in the game of attraction and seduction, you simply must take control of the game instead and beautiful women will be attracted to you naturally because you are oozing with the confidence of a macho alpha male whom beautiful girls just can't resist.
Want to have beautiful girlfriends? Then don't do what other guys who have no beautiful girlfriends do!
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You see, if you learn and perfect the art of seduction, attracting beautiful girls can be a piece of cake if you know how to flick on and off her right switches to turn her on. So read the seduction and flirting tips below and use them to become a chick magnet.
Examine Your Mindset - The first thing you must understand is that most men and women are mentally programed to believe certain things and act in certain ways when it comes to the issues of dating. These programed beliefs and attitudes can be the main stumbling block to your sexual attractiveness.
You may despise me for saying this although it is true that most men walk into the dating game with a rather weak mindset. These guys see women, especially beautiful ones as being superior to them. They subconsciously feel that beautiful girls like top models are out of their league.
Why they are beating themselves down even before meeting the girls is beyond my comprehension. Is it inferiority complex or low self esteem, if it is not, who programed these self defeating negative beliefs into their heads? Whoever told them that ordinary guys cannot attract and seduce beautiful women to be their girlfriends?
Those guys, because of this irrational belief and attitude become nervous, tongue-tied, and even scared stiff of approaching beautiful women, starting a conversation with her, or asking her out. Then poof, their chances of having a beautiful girlfriend are dashed since they do not even dare try to approach one.
So be different. Program into your head that you are a confident, secure and awesome guy and once you project that image, beautiful girls will notice you. You see, if you really want a beautiful girl to be attracted to you, you have to turn the tables on her instead of the other way round! You have to make her believe that you are the prize and not her. That you are the rare commodity that she needs to work at to get you before you are gone. In other words, do not make yourself too available. Play the game that women play on men and that is by playing hard to get.
So do not let her control you, no matter how beautiful she is and how desperate you want to date her and have her as your girlfriend. Not only you need to be confident, you must be super confident.
When you find a beautiful woman that you like to attract and seduce, always plan ahead. It is like going to a college examination where you have all the answers prepared well in advance. Since you are prepared, your confident level will skyrocket proportionately. You will not fumble or stutter for lost of words through nervousness because you already knew what to say and do before hand and she will find you very impressive compared to other guys who had approached her in the past.
Most guys will try to wine and dine a beautiful woman thinking that they can impress her with their money or expensive cars or impressive careers. They will even try to be as obedient and compliant as they possibly can.
Wake up guys. All beautiful women are sick of wussy men using these tactics to date them because they have been wined, dined and have tolerated countless show offs time and again. These tactics turn them off instead of getting them seduced. It just doesn't work anymore. She will take you just like any other men and get your freebies just of the sake of having the freebies and after that, bye bye.
Therefore, do the exact opposite of what most guys do and you won't believe how attractive you will become to her because you are not like "any other guy" who tried to impress her before. You are the real Mcoy, the real deal, the real MAN!
It is a fact that most of the time, beautiful girls control the dating game because the wussies let them do it. These women make the rules and call the shots. So, in order to win in the game of attraction and seduction, you simply must take control of the game instead and beautiful women will be attracted to you naturally because you are oozing with the confidence of a macho alpha male whom beautiful girls just can't resist.
Want to have beautiful girlfriends? Then don't do what other guys who have no beautiful girlfriends do!
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What Women Find Attractive
You don’t have to be an Adonis to be physically attractive to a woman, but there does appear to be some physical attributes that women look for in men. Probably no guy can lay claim to all of these traits, so take heart because many of them are things you couldn’t change even if you want to.
So let’s take a look at what women look for in a man physically:
First, women look at how tall you are. There is a broad range of what is most attractive for this category. It appears the ideal height is somewhere between 5’7” and 6’3”.
Next, women look at how much you weigh. Between 151 and 160 seems to be the most appealing weight range.
When it comes to build, for the most part women don’t want huge body builder guys. They want a man who is skinny or medium build but has toned muscles.
It appears blue eyes fare a bit better than any other eye color with brown closely behind. I’m not sure what happened to green or hazel or black or any other variations.
Teeth aren’t a huge factor unless they are gross. Bad teeth are a huge, huge turnoff to women.
Most women prefer brown or black hair that is short to medium length. Long haired blondes might be out of luck.
Being funny is golden when it comes to being attractive to women. Even men traditionally not believed to be good looking will be appealing if they have a great sense of humor.
There is one physical attribute I won’t go into because this is a G rated article but it involves the size of a particular body part. Let’s just say that there was a broad range of what is found attractive, so don’t even worry about that part.
Most women weren’t crazy about a forest of body hair, although keep in mind that some love that. However, almost all said wax the back and do not shave your arms or legs. And keep your beard shaved regularly.
Not surprising to me, women really, really notice how a man dresses. This is a big factor in how good looking she thinks a man is. They want someone who dresses neat and not in a weird way.
Education seems to matter. Women prefer men who are intelligent and hold a bachelor’s or master’s degree.
So, based on these facts, there is not a lot you can do to make yourself more attractive to a woman.
If you have bad teeth you could use the money you would otherwise spend at the gym (remember big bodybuilders aren’t the most appealing) and use it to fix your teeth. If you have long blonde hair, you can up your appeal by getting a good haircut.
You can also use some of that extra money to get your back waxed, invest in some nice clothes or go back to college. Other than that, you can always rely on charming her with your awesome sense of humor and personality!
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So let’s take a look at what women look for in a man physically:
First, women look at how tall you are. There is a broad range of what is most attractive for this category. It appears the ideal height is somewhere between 5’7” and 6’3”.
Next, women look at how much you weigh. Between 151 and 160 seems to be the most appealing weight range.
When it comes to build, for the most part women don’t want huge body builder guys. They want a man who is skinny or medium build but has toned muscles.
It appears blue eyes fare a bit better than any other eye color with brown closely behind. I’m not sure what happened to green or hazel or black or any other variations.
Teeth aren’t a huge factor unless they are gross. Bad teeth are a huge, huge turnoff to women.
Most women prefer brown or black hair that is short to medium length. Long haired blondes might be out of luck.
Being funny is golden when it comes to being attractive to women. Even men traditionally not believed to be good looking will be appealing if they have a great sense of humor.
There is one physical attribute I won’t go into because this is a G rated article but it involves the size of a particular body part. Let’s just say that there was a broad range of what is found attractive, so don’t even worry about that part.
Most women weren’t crazy about a forest of body hair, although keep in mind that some love that. However, almost all said wax the back and do not shave your arms or legs. And keep your beard shaved regularly.
Not surprising to me, women really, really notice how a man dresses. This is a big factor in how good looking she thinks a man is. They want someone who dresses neat and not in a weird way.
Education seems to matter. Women prefer men who are intelligent and hold a bachelor’s or master’s degree.
So, based on these facts, there is not a lot you can do to make yourself more attractive to a woman.
If you have bad teeth you could use the money you would otherwise spend at the gym (remember big bodybuilders aren’t the most appealing) and use it to fix your teeth. If you have long blonde hair, you can up your appeal by getting a good haircut.
You can also use some of that extra money to get your back waxed, invest in some nice clothes or go back to college. Other than that, you can always rely on charming her with your awesome sense of humor and personality!
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How To Know When A Girl Is Attracted To You
Believe me, if you already knew that a girl is attracted to you or not even though the both of you have not even met, then it will take a lot of guesswork and even embarrassment out of the equation when you approach girls to start a conversation, isn't it? This is because you will already knew beforehand who to approach and who will most likely respond to your seduction.
The problem for most men is that they don't even have a clue about it and just approach any girl they fancy randomly and the unfortunate ones are not just simply rejected but are sometimes rudely told off.
Therefore in order to understand if a girl has attraction for you, you have to study and read her body language. If you can detect certain signs that she is flirting with you when observing her, then you will know that she is attracted to you. The question then that begs an answer at this juncture will be so what are these flirting signs and signals?
Ok, here are some tips to know whether she is attracted to you and that is if you see any of these female body languages, you will know that she already likes you.
Laughing - Now, a woman is attracted to you when she is laughing along with her friends and occasionally taking glances at you. You see, women instictively knew that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. So when she is laughing with her friends and then giving you furtive glances, she is trying to display her a sense of humor to you.
Eye Contact - Another flirting signal women sends to men to get them to approach her is to look directly at you and maintain eye contact with you. In the course of doing that, she may even smile at you. In fact, she is seducing you. Be mindful of this because this is one of the most obvious flirting body language you will receive from any woman!
Preening Herself - When a woman who likes you knows that you have noticed her, she will make a quick effort to look her best for you. To do this, she tends to preen her hair and clothes. They do this unconciously and most of the time aren't even aware of what they are doing to get your attention.
When you see any of the above three body language signals a woman is sending to you, then it is time you approach her and strike up a conversation. When you do, do watch out for further flirting cues in her body language to you.
When a girl displays a degree of openness with her body language, she is demonstrating the classic sign of sexual attraction. Open body language simply means that her arms are opened and relaxed and her wrists are turned towards you.
During the conversation and that if she has affection for you, she will flirt even more by stroking her neck or touching her hair. If she really has it for you, she may also show some flesh such as revealing a bit more of her thigh. Now, this is getting interesting, isn't it?
From here onwards will depend on how you are able charm and seduce her even more and what the rest of the night will lead to. So the next time you are out, do be more observant on the body languages of girls around you so that you can detect the flirting signals of the girls who already liked and are attracted to you.
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The problem for most men is that they don't even have a clue about it and just approach any girl they fancy randomly and the unfortunate ones are not just simply rejected but are sometimes rudely told off.
Therefore in order to understand if a girl has attraction for you, you have to study and read her body language. If you can detect certain signs that she is flirting with you when observing her, then you will know that she is attracted to you. The question then that begs an answer at this juncture will be so what are these flirting signs and signals?
Ok, here are some tips to know whether she is attracted to you and that is if you see any of these female body languages, you will know that she already likes you.
Laughing - Now, a woman is attracted to you when she is laughing along with her friends and occasionally taking glances at you. You see, women instictively knew that men are attracted to girls who have a sense of humor. So when she is laughing with her friends and then giving you furtive glances, she is trying to display her a sense of humor to you.
Eye Contact - Another flirting signal women sends to men to get them to approach her is to look directly at you and maintain eye contact with you. In the course of doing that, she may even smile at you. In fact, she is seducing you. Be mindful of this because this is one of the most obvious flirting body language you will receive from any woman!
Preening Herself - When a woman who likes you knows that you have noticed her, she will make a quick effort to look her best for you. To do this, she tends to preen her hair and clothes. They do this unconciously and most of the time aren't even aware of what they are doing to get your attention.
When you see any of the above three body language signals a woman is sending to you, then it is time you approach her and strike up a conversation. When you do, do watch out for further flirting cues in her body language to you.
When a girl displays a degree of openness with her body language, she is demonstrating the classic sign of sexual attraction. Open body language simply means that her arms are opened and relaxed and her wrists are turned towards you.
During the conversation and that if she has affection for you, she will flirt even more by stroking her neck or touching her hair. If she really has it for you, she may also show some flesh such as revealing a bit more of her thigh. Now, this is getting interesting, isn't it?
From here onwards will depend on how you are able charm and seduce her even more and what the rest of the night will lead to. So the next time you are out, do be more observant on the body languages of girls around you so that you can detect the flirting signals of the girls who already liked and are attracted to you.
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How to Make a Girl Fall in Love - 4 Tips to Make Women Love You!
How to make a girl fall in love is a question that men ask themselves ALL of the time. Some guys want to learn new tricks that they can use in hopes that they can make a woman fall in love with them. Other men are looking for romantic ideas on how to make a girl fall in love. Yet, most guys seem to end up with the same experience in the end. It's not as easy as it looks or sounds to make a women love you.
However, there are some things that a man can do in order to make a girl fall in love. What you have to keep in mind is that not every girl is going to react the same exact way. You cannot get one magical line that is going to hook every woman that you meet. You have to understand how to use a woman's desires as a way to make her fall for you.
Here are 4 tips on how to make a girl fall in love that should give you a fighting chance:
1. She has to see some social proof.
Social proof is a very powerful thing. Advertisers know this, that's why they use celebrities to endorse their products. Well, I know that you probably cannot go out and get a celebrity to endorse you, but when you are able to make her see you with other women, preferably pretty women, you can give yourself kind of an implied endorsement that you are a desirable guy, even if you are nothing more than just friends with these women.
2. She has to see confidence.
Typically, the guy that ends up getting rejected by a girl is the one that has no confidence at all in himself when he is around her or he tries to flirt with her. You have to develop confidence and be confident around women. Otherwise, you have to realize that you probably will not make the kind of impression on a girl that you would like to make.
3. She has to have fun with you.
If you want to make a woman lose interest in you really quick, just become really boring when you are around her. See, a woman needs to have fun and feel good when she is with a guy if she is going to want to stick around and fall in love with him. Unfortunately, the nice guys also tend to be really boring when they are around women and the woman loses any interest that she might have had really quickly.
4. She has to feel SECURE with you.
This is one of the major reasons why alpha males always seem to get the girls. A woman has to feel secure when she is with a guy if she is going to fall in love and that love is going to last and be REAL. The good thing is, you don't have to be a tough guy to make a woman feel secure when she is with you. Just being confident and giving off the impression that you are far from insecure is usually more than enough to make her feel safe with you.
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However, there are some things that a man can do in order to make a girl fall in love. What you have to keep in mind is that not every girl is going to react the same exact way. You cannot get one magical line that is going to hook every woman that you meet. You have to understand how to use a woman's desires as a way to make her fall for you.
Here are 4 tips on how to make a girl fall in love that should give you a fighting chance:
1. She has to see some social proof.
Social proof is a very powerful thing. Advertisers know this, that's why they use celebrities to endorse their products. Well, I know that you probably cannot go out and get a celebrity to endorse you, but when you are able to make her see you with other women, preferably pretty women, you can give yourself kind of an implied endorsement that you are a desirable guy, even if you are nothing more than just friends with these women.
2. She has to see confidence.
Typically, the guy that ends up getting rejected by a girl is the one that has no confidence at all in himself when he is around her or he tries to flirt with her. You have to develop confidence and be confident around women. Otherwise, you have to realize that you probably will not make the kind of impression on a girl that you would like to make.
3. She has to have fun with you.
If you want to make a woman lose interest in you really quick, just become really boring when you are around her. See, a woman needs to have fun and feel good when she is with a guy if she is going to want to stick around and fall in love with him. Unfortunately, the nice guys also tend to be really boring when they are around women and the woman loses any interest that she might have had really quickly.
4. She has to feel SECURE with you.
This is one of the major reasons why alpha males always seem to get the girls. A woman has to feel secure when she is with a guy if she is going to fall in love and that love is going to last and be REAL. The good thing is, you don't have to be a tough guy to make a woman feel secure when she is with you. Just being confident and giving off the impression that you are far from insecure is usually more than enough to make her feel safe with you.
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